You find yourself in a place of opportunity to share the tangible touch of God to someone who is hurting and confused. You will need to walk in the grace of God in all conversations with her regardless of her final decision. It is likely that she is in great need of someone who will listen to her, support her, and love her unconditionally, especially if she does decide to end her pregnancy.
Be willing to talk with her about her decision. Don't be afraid to ask questions that will get her thinking about her decision. Did you know that women who have abortions are more likely to suffer from depression and other forms of mental illness, have more broken relationships, and have repeat abortions? Statistics show that 8 of 10 incarcerated women have had abortions.
Abortions often seem like a quick solution to an immediate problem. However, in reality they bring on much more pain and emotional suffering than pro-choice advocates ever let on.
Be ready to talk with your friend and especially ready to listen. And Pray! Pray that God will give you many opportunities to talk with her, to befriend her, to support her. Pray that God will intervene and stop the abortion. And when you talk to her ask her about "the baby". Give her a baby gift to help her make it seem real. Perhaps if she begins accepting the concept of a "baby" she will be less likely to end her pregnancy and either give the baby up for adoption or keep it herself.
Thank you for allowing God to use you in this way. Take every opportunity He gives you and make the most of it.
Blessings,
Leslie |
